After reading the "The Faces of Hater" by Xiaxue and "Naked Face" By Jane, I'm inspired to write about this topic.
Most of the time i would like to think that people around me are all good and kind people. I can never imagine how would someone could be so heartless and thoughtless to hurt others for whatever reason, not even to mention to harm someone intentionally..I would feel so bad and surprise to hear bout it. Yet as much as i'd hope for that, i know that FACT REMAINS FACT and HATER GONNA HATE anyway.
All of us, like it or not, had encoutered those mean people in our life. We read about bad news causing by those mean people everyday in our life. In chinese saying, the general term using are "小人". Sometimes, those people not only can be mean in their words but can be manipulative as well.
At times, I'd been told to be Bigger person, to tolerate and to ignore..I did, most of time, it's just simply doesn't worthy to waste my time for that. BUT I wouldn't think that it's wise to do so everytime, because being BIGGER person doesn't means that one should be ill-treated.
So, it's very important that we learn bout how to handle those mean people.
I 'm not able to tell you all way to handle this because there's no one particular way that can tackle all different problems.
I think, mean people are usually those who are low self-esteem inside, that he/she often need to feel in control/superior than others in order to feel better bout himself/herself. In order to feel so, they need to be happy on others' expense, Gross..how sick is that kind of thought?? And they are incapable to stay in an equal realationship with others.
I saw this picture because Patrick share it. How appropriate! It hits me almost immediately.
Well, i am well-awared of that, so when the time i saw this photo, i laugh out so hard.....and if you must know the reason, it's just because i do it all the time..so frequent. What i do is being happy, kay? Please don't get me wrong (and of course i did know that it's annoying sometimes)
I never mean this to annoy anyone, of course *angel crown*
but if you does feel so, I'm not sorry bout that.
Someone who truly likes/loves you could never be annoyed by your happiness because it's making he/she happy too.
xoxo
XT
