mean people?

Hi, do you all miss me? or you just don't give a damn bout me blogging or not?


After reading the "The Faces of Hater" by Xiaxue and "Naked Face" By Jane, I'm inspired to write about this topic.


Most of the time i would like to think that people around me are all good and kind people. I can never imagine how would someone could be so heartless and thoughtless to hurt others for whatever reason, not even to mention to harm someone intentionally..I would feel so bad and surprise to hear bout it. Yet as much as i'd hope for that, i know that FACT REMAINS FACT and HATER GONNA HATE anyway.


All of us, like it or not, had encoutered those mean people in our life. We read about bad news causing by those mean people everyday in our life. In chinese saying, the general term using are "小人". Sometimes, those people not only can be mean in their words but can be manipulative as well.


At times, I'd been told to be Bigger person, to tolerate and to ignore..I did, most of time, it's just simply doesn't worthy to waste my time for that. BUT I wouldn't think that it's wise to do so everytime, because being BIGGER person doesn't means that one should be ill-treated.

So, it's very important that we learn bout how to handle those mean people.

I 'm not able to tell you all way to handle this because there's no one particular way that can tackle all different problems.


I think, mean people are usually those who are low self-esteem inside, that he/she often need to feel in control/superior than others in order to feel better bout himself/herself. In order to feel so, they need to be happy on others' expense, Gross..how sick is that kind of thought?? And they are incapable to stay in an equal realationship with others.

I saw this picture because Patrick share it. How appropriate! It hits me almost immediately.

Well, i am well-awared of that, so when the time i saw this photo, i laugh out so hard.....and if you must know the reason, it's just because i do it all the time..so frequent. What i do is being happy, kay? Please don't get me wrong (and of course i did know that it's annoying sometimes) 

I never mean this to annoy anyone, of course *angel crown*

but if you does feel so, I'm not sorry bout that.

Someone who truly likes/loves you could never be annoyed by your happiness because it's making he/she happy too.

xoxo

XT

something in between

Time flies.

Here i am.
I'd caught a flu yesterday and it's literally turns all my meals into tasteless now.  Good! =(
I wanna to get well asap. There is a few things that i'd sort it out lately, things to add in my resolution for 2012 *Tee-hee*

1.  to be more Patient
I started to aware that how much impatient i am and how much it cost me in the previous time..everything takes time to happen, being patient is an issue i m dealing with lately

2. to be Effective
I'm learning and applying my knowledge everyday, to cope with my routine assignments, life etc and achieving my goals at the same time.


It's great that i'd finally put everything back in place..Life's great, don't lose your sight! =)



-short update-

late update

Presiie for him ❤

CNY clothesssss!

A glance of my CNY clothes

I m having fun getting mix and match idea for all this pretty clothes

Am so excited to look forward into upcoming CNY events *weee* =D

080112 - My New Skincare

Sorry for taking a lil longer to update bout junkies i 'd bought lately... i have to be more efficient next time!! There are more bout it, so stay tune! i'd been busying with cleaning my room lately, 70% of work is done now, i need to be hurry so i could finished it before CNY. i'm not really good at housekeeping but i m trying to make everything looking more organised and neater. i'd been thinking of having a makeover for my room soon, maybe after CNY (?) =D

Cut the crapzz, today i 'm going to share bout my new skincare. i haven't start to use some of it yet (am still using my existing skincare). Below is my brief review, if there is any question, please kindly leave me a msg =)

1. Bioderma Sensibio h2O cleansing water 500ml (aka Crealine H2O Solution Micellaire) - it's really light as water and can clean perfectly without any irritation, itching or drying but no good with heavy eye makeup or mascara/eyeliner. I'll definitely go for second bottle in future

2. Laroche - Posay Rosaliac Micellar Make-up Removal Gel 200ml - it's a dermatological cleansing gel for redness-prone and reactive skin, haven't started to use it yet.

3. Maybeline Makeup Remover for Eye and Lip 70ml - It 's in my daily skincare regimen to remove eye makeup. One drawback of this products is it leaves stains on my skin if i use the cotton repeatedly. Any better products to recommend ?

4. Avene Thermal Spring Water 300ml - This is my second can. It is suitable for all skin type especially sensitive and unstable skin. It could be use as toner or soothing skin after sunburn or makeup or hair removal or even mosquito bites !!

5. DDF Glycolic Toner 10% 250ml - This is my 1st glycolic acid (an alpha hydroxy acid)toner. It help to increase cellular turnover of skin surface (which mean remove dead cell)thus brighten and minimize the appearance of fine lines. it leave a bit stinging feeling on my skin without causing any redness. I'd been using it occasionally so it would takes longer time for me to monitor the result.

6. Kanebo FreePlus Barrier Repair Lotion 2 130ml - there are two type of Barrier Repair Lotion, which is 1 for oilly and combination skin and 2 for normal and dry skin. Barrier Repair Lotion is actually not a lotion, it's toner indeed. *haven't started to use it yet*

7. BH Rose Water Hyrolat 1 litres - It has a nice and pure rose flower scent. Can be use as mask or toner.

8. Kanebo FreePlus Barrier Repair Emulsion 1 130ml - Although freeplus emulsion 1 is for oily and combination skin and in lighter texture than emulsion 2, but i found it 's providing enough and just fine moisture that my dehydrated skin need. Since Freeplus is paraben free, so the expiration date is very soon which is 2-3 months after opening.

9. Sofina Beaute Day Protector SPF50+ PA+++ 40ml - If you are looking for good sunscreen that wouldn't leave greasy, oilly nor sticky feeling on your skin and with high SPF, Sofina Beauty day protector Spf50+ PA+++ will definitely fits your requirements. What could i ask more for a sunscreen?

10. Maybeline 8-in-1 BB Smooth Mineral BB Cream 18ml - there are two type of colours, one is fresh (more yellowish) and another one is natural which is more reddish. I m using Maybeline BB cream - fresh. It 's really light and looks natural and have decent SPF coverage plus the price is quite cheap too. Quite a good choice for girls who prefer light makeup base and have budget consideration.

11. Borghese Fango Ristorativo Hydrating Mud 500ml - It has a lovely light blue colour. I m huge fan of Borghese mud mask, i'd use Borghese Fango Delicato Active mask before. This light blue mud mask leaves a cooling sensation on my skin, it 's more on replenish and nourish dull and depleted skin than doing cleansing purpose as Delicato Active mask does.

12. Base Formula Aloe Vera & Seaweed Hydrating Gel 500ml - i use it as hydrating mask. It would be nice if i put it inside fridge before i apply it on my skin. =)

13. Compressed Facial Mask Paper 12 pcs /3 packs - use it with BH rose flower hyrolat

14. YongHe Three Beauty Powder Puff 4 pcs - use for makeup or cleansing

At last i did this!! I 'll take good care of my skin, promise that i wont b a lazy bum anymore...Thankiiew for reading! Love you guys so muchhhiie! Gotta go =D

(p/s: I m watching VD season3 epi10 - Damon is so sweet, i really think that he is deserve to b with Elena, don't you guys think so ??)

【Garrett PopCorn】- Chicago Tradition Since 1949

I WANT NOBODY NOBODY BUT .....YOU !!

Garrett PopCorn

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Garrett Popcorn to give away to our relatives, sharing the love =D

- just a little sharing -

NY must-have ITEMs listing

There are three new items i must have at beginning of every NY, and i always believe that this could bring me good luck for the year ahead.

1. Latest Calender - am sure that everyone will have one, gotta make sure that i have wise time management this year

2. Notebook - to make my own to-do lists for routine errands and a notebook is really helpful in daily, monthly and yearly planning!!

3. Purse - in the hope that it 'll bring prosperity to my life in 2012. I WANT TO EARN MORE MONEYYYY THIS YEAR $$$$$! the shopping spree and incidents happened lately really costs me a bomb *sob sob* * When can i have my own house??*

Thanks for spending time here, have a nice weekend ya all =)